Each Monday take a few quick moments to put your home back in order after the weekend. Trash into the trash can, dishes into the dishwasher, laundry moving through your washer to the dryer to folded and put away. Beds made. Quickly with the aid of your young assistants (aka kids) put things back where they belong. When things begin to go pear shaped call a quick pickup throughout your home before they are too far gone.
- Clean Your Toilets
- Check Your Bathrooms for Any Needed Supplies—paper, personal or cleaning and add them to your shopping list for when you run errands.
I keep a pad of paper that is magnetized so I can stow it on my fridge on the counter in the kitchen and write down what I am going to need as I notice it. If someone asks me to pick up some after shave or toothpaste or their favorite snack, I ask them to write it on the list on the kitchen counter. I fight to keep a pen right there with the list so it will be easy.
Please don’t ever think that I think I am more together than you. Whenever I get it all together I forget where I put it. The truth is my mom did not teach me how to care for my home and I had to struggle to learn. I want to help you in that struggle but I have learned by being in the trenches of daily life with so many demands and what seemed like too little time.
Saturday at 6 am the phone rang. It was my almost 36 year old daughter. She had been awake since 3 am feeling terrible. Could I take her to Patient First when it opened at 8? I jumped up and began to make my bed when the phone rang again. Could I take her to the ER? She felt too terrible to wait.
Her 11 year old had spent the night at our home but Papa was here to look after him so I threw on my clothes, combed my hair and headed out the door.
I enjoyed being with my daughter for 5 hours in the ER and I am not being sarcastic. I enjoyed just being with her and chatting and trying to encourage her. When they released her around noon I drove her home and took my 14 yo grandson to his appointment to get his hair cut. Papa had taken the 11 yo home earlier so I returned home a little exhausted. We had a delightful commitment to share dinner with a group of friends that evening and I had promised bread and dessert. I got the ingredients for bread into my breadmaker and realized I would not have time to make the triple chocolate cake I had planned. (to be continued)
(Continued) Roy walked into the living room and asked me to pick him up from the garage. His truck is going in for repair. I dropped everything. Ran upstairs, made my bed, threw on some clothes and ran a comb through my hair and out the door!
Back to my narrative—So when I went to pick up Brayden from his haircut, I ran to the store and picked up a peach pie to bake. Home, shaped the loaves and let them rise, baked the pie, showered, baked the bread and out the door to a lovely dinner with friends. And then—home to a thoroughly trashed home.
- Bed half made before heading off to the ER
- Blankets on the couch from Kobe spending the night.
- General chaos all around.
I usually do not do much of anything on Sunday. It is a day of rest. I took a little while to put everything back in order early in the day. I cannot rest in a mess. Today, I will go off my routine:
Even when you are not at home your house accumulates dirt. I cleaned the toilets as soon as we got home last week but unpacking, laundry, preparing to share at In His Garden on Thursday and then sharing morning and evening on Thursday, as well as getting some groceries, spending time with grandkids, opening 3 weeks’ worth of mail, making sure bills have been paid and family business was up to date.
When we were in Utah I heard Roy talking to our daughter Summer and her husband Paul. He told them I take good care of him. It made my heart happy to know he knows he is important to me and I do try to take care of him.
Enough unloading for the day—I do want to do a calendar for May and post it under the Files tab on My Heart’s at Home on Facebook. https://www.facebook.com/groups/MyHeartsatHome/ I hope you will print the calendar and post it where you can see it. The Weekly Tasks and Areas of Focus will be on the calendar and you will not have to wait for me. I will post on a regular basis going back to the beginning and trying to review all I do to work smarter, not harder.
Love and Hugs,